She knows that if she calls you to hang out, you’d bail on all your commitments just to see her. You already made plans, so she’ll have to wait another day.
If you’re used to sitting on your couch and playing video games and you’re not getting a girl, it’s time to change up your lifestyle. You can initiate the first conversation, but believe me, if she likes you, she’ll keep talking. You don’t need to be a people-pleaser and get approval from everyone before doing something. This is all about working on your confidence and creating personal boundaries with your relationships.
You need to watch out for the "super niceguys," too. Well, just like a super nice women, super niceguys bend over backwards to avoid hurting your feelings.
They want to avoid conflict at any cost and so they "make nice." They shy away from expressing how they really feel if they think you won't agree.
The danger of getting involved with a super niceguy is that they send mixed messages about how they feel.