Maybe this comes from having our fingers burned, maybe from downright experience. We need to recharge our batteries before rejoining the dating battle. There are a few yes, who are very lucky indeed and they will probably not be reading this, but for most of us we need to take a methodical approach. To avoid dating fatigue decide on what we want, who we want and when we want - it.
The fact is, we all have our list and we need that list. We are on a life campaign to find someone to love, so expect to get tired, expect to feel let down occasionally and pace yourself. Do you build yourself up in anticipation before each date and lead yourself into an emotional crisis, or do you keep a cool clear head and wait to be pleasantly surprised?
We singles know this feeling and yet it is rarely discussed and even less written about.
After a number of dates you wonder if it is worth it.
“You are always thinking that there is someone better on the next swipe,” she says.