Thirtysomething dating blog dating someone who used to be promiscuous
New rules for dating during one’s twenties—the details of which no one seems to know—have developed to protect this time of exploration.
Because it has been a successful way to introduce previous posts, I wanted to put real faces on this demographic before I delve into a bunch of numbers.
Pictured below are some single users in their mid-thirties or early forties, taken from the first couple pages of my own local match search.
I’ll be investigating this phenomenon today, with gusto and charts.
Ultimately, I’ll argue that they would be well-served to expand their search upwards, to women in their thirties and forties.
I’m actually glad to finally hear from a Jacob, the male counterpoint to Kate Bolick’s own examination of “All the Single Ladies” who end up paired, impermanently, with guys like him.